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Dear RSA,
I like to picture my boyfriend as Anthony Hopkins from "Silence of the Lambs" while he's eating me out, and this really turns me on. Is this a bad thing?
Kathy, A & M

That's some fucked up shit, girl.

Nah, I'm just kidding. To be honest, yeah, personally I think that is kind of strange and kinky (not to mention original), but there's nothing wrong with kinky, as long as nobody gets hurt. Fantasizing about a cannibalistic serial killer going down on you may be your way of indulging the darker side of your sexuality, flirting with danger, madness, and the desire to be consumed in the ultimate manner. If it gets you off, I see no harm in it. It's a safe way to explore those aspects of your psyche and sexuality. Some people like to fantasize about vampire scenarios, and it's very similar.

Just one question: do you make your boyfriend wear one of those hockey mask things? Probably not - that would make oral a little challenging.

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